January 03, 2008

Giving the perfect wedding gift

When it comes to giving weddings, I have a gifting strategy that I feel very strongly about.

First of all, I stick to the registry. I've heard a number of people say that off-registry gifts are a major risk, and that they register for things because they WANT them.

Secondly, you can't "win" the registry. Even if you bought every single item, your cash outlay would not impress the couple that just spent their life savings on a big party with ~100 of their closest friends and family.

So, what do you do? Well, the only thing you can control is the thank you note you're going to receive in a few weeks, so maximize that. The couple will have to write a few sentences about how they love what you got them, so have some fun.

Decide how much you're going to spend, and pick the items on the list that you think it would be hardest to thank someone for if they gave them to you. I like cheese graters, ladels, spatulas, napkin rings, specilty cutlery, etc.

Believe me, it's all worth it when you get a note that says: "We've already had a blast using the lovely oven mitt you bought us."

The problem is, I've shared this philosophy of mine with some friends, one got married, and he called out my hyjinx. Here's an excerpt from the thank you note I received [it ends mid-sentence to protect his identity]...

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Jan 3, 2008 1:22:02 PM | Musings, Voting Option

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when i was a child, i dreamed about my wedding party and see all my brides mades sitted around memake. i was really happy when i though that i could do my oun album and work on my wedding scrapbook

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Well,I must say that when it comes on my wedding wish I could have something really special I love it.

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